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December Weekend Review

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{Went to the dance event where I made dancers’ costumes. Youtube video coming up soon!}

{Holiday season is full on! Blueberry pie from last weekend’s Christmas party}

{Rearranged my sewing table a bit – The flower lights are from Pamela Angus, the washi tape folder is from 3 coins}

{Made some Christmas stockings using scraps}

{Festive mood everywhere in town! Whimsical wooden music box at a small shop in mall}

{Wearing these Sam Edelman booties nonstop. They are versatile and comfortable}

Why does this time of the year seem to go so quick?! I had a nice weekend with lots of time with family and friends. How was yours?

Already Mid November

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{Too early? First Christmas decoration in our house! I found this at 3 coins, and I had to pick it up!}

{Pretty bunting from the friends’ baby shower I went last weekend}

{Small polkadot bows I used to dress up this sweater}

{Naoshi post cards in Kiko’s room}

{My second attempt to quilt}

A few snaps from my days this week. I can’t believe Thanksgiving is just a week away. I was traveling a lot last week, so this week I am so happy to be home and relaxing. As for sewing, I am in the process of making dance costumes for a group or dancers for their show in December. I am really excited about this opportunity! I also bought a faux leather for the first time, and making a skirt and a dress for myself soon. What are you sewing this week?

Mommy’s Diary: More Courses to Attend

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Pictures from Tama Zoo we visited on Labor Day

I haven’t updated here on our adoption/foster care processes, but we actually made quite a bit progress over the summer! We attended a bunch of meetings and foster care group courses. We also got the chance to visit an orphanage.

I wrote about our first group course here. The second one was held a month later, and of course, it was on Sunday. I feel like every event  falls on Sundays, which is a problem for us since we attend church on Sundays. But considering that the Child Guidance Center offers these courses that are required for hopeful foster parents only twice a year, we just had to do it when they were offered.

After the first group course I came home terribly depressed and sad because the meeting revolved around the issue of foster parent abuse. It saddened me to think of these children and made me really consider what is necessary for me not to become an abuser like these other people.  Thankfully, after the last two meetings, I came home encouraged because the topics were generally more pleasant and revolved around various exciting child raising possibilities. After these meetings, I felt very secure that we could be suitable foster parents. Still though, there was a feeling of irritation I could not quite shake.

During these latter two meetings, we had chances to spend time getting to know other couples who wanted to be foster parents. We had a group discussion times where we could share our thoughts on the study materials, ask questions and and reveal concerns. This is from where my irritation stems. I noticed that many couples had personal, marital and relationship issues that need to be dealt with before they should consider enter the foster care program. Three out of five couples who attended the courses said they are thinking of foster care only because they could not have their biological children. What saddened me was that the wives were so desperate, they’ve probably tried fertility treatments for years (I’m guessing because they seemed older, 40s or maybe in 50s), but the husbands were so indifferent and distant. One guys said he wasn’t even sure if he wanted to do this, but his wife forced him into attending the courses. The other guy said he only needed a child for inheritance purposes. Inheritance?! Are you Bill Gates?! What do you have thats so wonderful?! At another meeting with these same couples we had a chance to visit inside an orphanage. Te husbands spent their time outside smoking, uninterested and uncaring. Why would anyone give these people children?

If that’s the reality of the foster care in Japan, I’m heart broken. The kids might be better off staying at the orphanage with government supplied care takers.